How to Avoid Common Money Mistakes with Jeff Kreisler

Have you ever found yourself wondering why your financial goals seem perpetually out of reach? Maybe you've thought, "If I had more willpower, I’d achieve my financial goals," or "Budgets suck. They only show me what I did wrong and make me feel horrible." If these thoughts resonate with you, rest assured, you are not alone. Many of us struggle with our relationship with money, often feeling defeated by our own decisions.

It's essential to realize that the issue isn't a lack of willpower or a personal flaw; rather, it's a fundamental aspect of being human. Our emotions frequently drive our decisions, often leading us to make choices that defy logic. The good news is that money management is a skill that can be learned and improved upon. Understanding the reasoning behind our decisions, along with the marketing strategies employed by retailers, can help us navigate the complex world of finance more effectively. In this article, we will explore common financial mistakes and provide actionable solutions to help you make smarter money choices.

Joining us for this discussion is Jeff Kreisler, co-author of Dollars and Sense and Editor-in-Chief of PeopleScience.com. Jeff's background includes attending Princeton University and practicing law before venturing into the realms of authorship and speaking. He co-authored Dollars and Sense with Dr. Dan Ariely, a bestselling book that delves into behavioral economics and seeks to explain why we make poor financial decisions.

Five Common Financial Mistakes to Avoid

Recognizing financial missteps can be challenging, as our minds often deceive us into believing we're making logical choices. Below are five common mistakes that many individuals make when handling their finances, along with insights on how to avoid them.

1. Overvaluing Sales

There's nothing quite like the thrill of snagging a deal. The sensation of paying less than the full price can feel like a victory. However, this excitement can lead us to overspend. As Jeff points out, we are more likely to buy a shirt marked down from $100 to $60 than to purchase a shirt that costs $60 outright.

“You would buy a shirt that was $100 [that’s] marked down to $60 more frequently than you would just buy a $60 shirt because you have that easy comparison ... relative to a $100 shirt, a $60 shirt is a great deal.”

Here are some tips to resist the allure of sales:

• Establish a written spending plan.
• Create a shopping list before entering a store.
• Consider adopting an anti-budget approach.

2. Overlooking Opportunity Costs

When we earmark money for specific purchases, we can inadvertently overlook opportunity costs – the potential benefits we miss by not considering other options. For example, if you save $30,000 for a car, you might become attached to that figure and fail to consider less expensive alternatives that allow you to save the difference for future investments.

“…[Dan] asked people, ‘You’re about to spend $30,000 on a Honda. What else could you spend that on?’ And people couldn’t think of anything ...”

To better evaluate your spending, ask yourself the following questions:

1. Do I need to spend this entire amount?
2. What else could I use this money for?

3. Numbing the Pain of Paying

Our instinct is to avoid pain, but experiencing the pain of paying can actually lead to better financial choices. Jeff notes that handing over cash can stimulate the same area of the brain as physical pain, yet modern payment methods can dull this sensation.

“The pain of paying reflects this finding that when we … hand over a $20 bill at a counter, it stimulates the same region of our brain as physical pain does.”

Consider this simple experiment: try making purchases with cash for a week instead of using a credit card. Observe whether the emotional impact of cash payments influences your spending habits.

4. Putting Distance Between Payment and Use

Many people overlook the monthly fees associated with subscription services because payments are automatically deducted. For instance, you may not consider the $119 annual fee for Amazon Prime every time you benefit from free shipping.

“We just went through the shopping season and I’m sure plenty of your listeners used Amazon.com because they had free shipping. Well, no, they didn’t have free shipping. They paid for Prime…but it felt free.”

To combat this, regularly evaluate your subscriptions. Ask yourself:

• Do I still use this service?
• Does it provide value for the cost?

5. Overvaluing What You Own

Emotional attachment can lead us to overvalue our belongings, which can result in two significant problems:

1. We may price items too high when attempting to sell them, leading to missed opportunities. For example, homeowners often overprice their homes based on emotional experiences, causing delays in sales.
2. We may become overly loyal to brands that align with our identity, resulting in overspending.

Jeff illustrates this with a simple example:

“You’re a Starbucks coffee drinker, but you could save a dollar a day by drinking Pete’s that’s next door and even closer to your office than the Starbucks is.”

To mitigate this tendency, reflect on your identity and the spending habits that align with your financial goals. Consider which habits benefit you and which need adjustment.

Four Strategies to Help You Make Better Financial Decisions

Now that we've identified common pitfalls, what strategies can you implement to improve your financial decision-making process?

1. Be Specific and Personal with Your Financial Goals

Setting vague goals can lead to a lack of motivation. Instead, aim for specificity. For example, rather than saying, "I’ll retire in 12 years," try, "I’m going to retire on August 23rd, 2024, and I will start my retirement by renting an Airbnb on Lake Michigan for three months."

Jeff emphasizes that the more concrete your vision for the future, the more likely you are to make responsible financial choices today.

2. Hide Money From Yourself

Having your checking and savings accounts at the same institution can lead to overspending. When you see a high balance, you might feel tempted to spend more. One way to counter this is to open accounts at different banks.

Consider automating transfers to separate accounts, creating the illusion that you have less money available to spend. Jeff explains:

“Suddenly we’ve hidden $200 a week from ourselves, and … when we look at our ATM receipt that’s on our checking account, we’re going to think we have less money to spend…”

3. Visibly Track Your Financial Progress

While spending can be visible, saving often remains hidden. To stay motivated, make your saving efforts tangible. For example, keep a chart of your net worth growth on your phone or a post-it note tracking your savings on your bathroom mirror.

Jeff highlights the importance of visibility in reinforcing good financial decisions:

“We never really talk about or see savings or investing. That stuff is invisible. In fact, more than it being invisible, like when you save money for the future, what do you see now? You see less.”

4. Create an Identity Around Saving and Investing

Being part of a community, such as Financial Independence Retire Early (FIRE), can help shape your financial identity. By engaging with others who share similar goals, you reinforce your commitment to saving and investing.

Jeff discusses the power of identity in financial success:

“I think part of the success of this FIRE movement … is this identity, right? You’ve created this identity of like, I’m doing something now for my future.”

Resources for Further Exploration

• PeopleScience.com
• Dollars and Sense, by Dr. Dan Ariely and Jeff Kreisler
• Jeff on Twitter
• Dr. Dan Ariely

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